First Dates Make First Impressions
December 27th, 2011First dates are tough situations. Many times, they can be awkward. What can you do?
Here are some first date tips for you.
Arrange to meet in places other than your houses and try to drive yourself. This gives you a chance to go your way if you don\’t find that date that pleasing. This also helps avoid the impulse to invite your date in or not. And if you drive yourself, you don\’t have to let your date know where you live if you don\’t want to.
Keep the date simple. First dates can bring on jittery nerves. Jittery nerves and complicated plans do not mix. Just keep things light and easy.
For men, try ending the date first politely, but make sure you show that you\’re interested. This makes you unique.
Women, don\’t wear anything provocative or too sexy. First impressions really do last. Your date will first learn about your appearance and behaviour. You certainly don\’t want to give him the wrong impression.
Try and wear clothing that makes you confident and that you are comfortable wearing. It will be uncomfortable enough without worrying about that tightness around you waist or the itchy necktie.
Men, be specific where you\’re planning on taking a woman on a date. It would give your date an idea what to expect and what to wear. It would not be right to wear a cocktail dress to a fast food joint!
Ask your date about himself/herself. It\’s good to show a healthy interest. This means that you want to learn about him/her and think of your date as an interesting person. Keep in mind that the most interesting conversationalists as those who inquire about others. You could talk about work, hobbies, and sports. Just keep it light and conversational.
Try not to overdo the perfume or the cologne. Too strong and the scent can be quite distracting. It\’s very hard to complete an evening out with your date dazed by the smell.
Mouthwash is very important. Also, brush your teeth and bring a couple of mints if you\’re eating out.
Don\’t forget to have fun and be yourself!